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Post by horseguy on Sept 12, 2016 14:09:35 GMT
My farm website is still up for a while and I get inquires. I received an inquiry for lessons for a 3 year old girl and replied - I have been teaching riding for 40 years. I have now retired. My website is still up for a while.
The most helpful advice I can give you is 3 years old is too young to begin riding lessons. Unlike other sports, riding involves another being with will. A child of 3 does not yet have the necessary development required to truly learn to ride with a horse, and we do want them to ride with not on the horse. Typically, the most benefit from lesson comes around 6 years old. Sometimes 5 year olds can benefit.
In the meantime the best thing you can do to prepare your daughter for riding is to take her to places like the Land of Little Horses www.landoflittlehorses.com in order to become familiar with equines. Do some pony rides and enjoy her early years. The best physical preparation is gymnastics and ballet, which teach body awareness and precision of movement.
Equines are not at all like canines or felines. They have their own psychology and impulses. Given the horse's size, it can be dangerous to introduce small children to them until they can appreciate the inherent dangers. For example, horses cannot always see their feet and will move them for their comfort. If your daughter's foot were to be where a horse put their foot, all the bones in her feet could be accidently broken. These kinds of accidents are too common in young kids and they happen so quickly that it's over before you know it.
Good luck,
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Post by rideforever on Sept 16, 2016 21:05:19 GMT
I've been struggling with this topic. My daughter is 6 now. Family are asking me why I don't take her out to the barn with me and teach her to ride.
I didn't start until I was 8, and honestly, I don't really think there's a difference in ability shown in riders who start early vs riders who start a bit later.
I just want to see the following things at this point 1- no fear, and eagerness to try 2- physical development / core strength 3- attention to detail
Huh. Come to think of it, that's what I look for in young horses
So, she rides on pony rides and occasionally gets to visit my horse at the barn. She plays soccer and hockey. She's not afraid, and she's gaining core strength which will serve her well when we do start riding
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Post by horseguy on Sept 17, 2016 13:30:02 GMT
I've been struggling with this topic. My daughter is 6 now. Family are asking me why I don't take her out to the barn with me and teach her to ride. I didn't start until I was 8, and honestly, I don't really think there's a difference in ability shown in riders who start early vs riders who start a bit later. I just want to see the following things at this point 1- no fear, and eagerness to try 2- physical development / core strength 3- attention to detail Huh. Come to think of it, that's what I look for in young horses So, she rides on pony rides and occasionally gets to visit my horse at the barn. She plays soccer and hockey. She's not afraid, and she's gaining core strength which will serve her well when we do start riding I have three kids. All were riders as children. My oldest, a girl, began at 6 years old. My second child, my son, was not ready until 8 years old. He had no fear, was physically strong and coordinated enough, but his focus and attention to detail didn't come together enough until 8. My youngest, a girl, watched her older siblings and took a lot in early. She was ready at 4 years old, driven to be her brother and sister's equal. It varies so much depending on the child.
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Post by rideanotherday on Sept 19, 2016 11:42:18 GMT
With my daughter, it was almost the exact opposite from what Rideforever is doing. I had access to horses, so her first "ride" was at 6 months old and it continued on. First she rode in front of me, then graduated to riding behind and then by herself. She did get horse camp during her younger years (8-10) and she got her first pony at 10 ish. She has a truly pretty seat on a horse and kind hands.
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